End-of-Life Doula. Grief Specialist. Published Author.
Animal & Nature Lover. Reiki Master. Mother. Wife. Grandmother.

Holly's Story

Holly's personal journey, training and professional experiences have prepared her to serve those facing a wide variety of loss and grief. Her end-of-life doula and grief work led to the creation of Healing Heart to Heart, a private death doula and grief specialist practice in which she served for several years. After the onset of COVID was compounded by the death of loved ones and her husband's diagnosis of Alzheimer’s, a disease that has touched several people close to her, she began to see the need for widespread grief and end-of-life literacy and care. This inspired the creation of the nonprofit Center for the Heart and the publication of her story in Transforming Pain into Purpose, Volume 2. She seeks to empower her clients and colleagues, her surrounding community and anyone else with whom she comes into contact.

Raised in Kentucky, Holly attended Brescia University, studying business and marketing. After graduation, she left her rural roots for urban life, first in Atlanta, where she met her husband of over 40 years, and then New York, where they had two children. During her early career, she organized and led large-scale projects and teams as Chief Executive Assistant to the Senior VP for Citibank’s New York Commercial Marketplace and as Human Resources Generalist at Coca-Cola, managing multi-million-dollar budgets and teams of 25 or more people. At Citibank, she facilitated team-building and personal-growth endeavors, training approximately 4500 employees through workshops and other organized events.

Transitioning out of her full-time professional career to focus on her children, Holly and her family moved to Summit, NJ, where they could enjoy nature and space. She dove into her surroundings, working extensively within the school system, her Temple and other local organizations to create friendships and humanitarian bonds that still continue today. Nine years into this new chapter, Holly became aware of repressed trauma. Philanthropy was her way to stay grounded and move through the journey of depression, grief and beyond, in order to heal.

During this period, she suffered a brain aneurysm. After her near-death experience, Holly developed a profound connection to the art of dying and end-of-life care, propelling her to focus volunteer efforts on death, dying and grief work, primarily via Atlantic Healthcare Hospice and The Carol G. Sienna Cancer Center at Morristown Medical Center. She provided care for patients undergoing chemotherapy and other terminal illness care.

This inspired a secondary career as an End-of-Life Doula. She completed training in thanatology, pastoral care, energy work, alternative modalities and of course End-of-Life Doula Certification. After spending many years concentrating on the quality of life for both the terminally ill, seniors and the grief community, she made it her personal mission to see that those facing these challenges were supported with the utmost respect, openness and understanding. To this end, she founded Healing Heart to Heart, where she practiced compassionate care of individuals and their families as they approached transition and helped those dealing with manifestations of grief access its full potential as a transformative experience.

After a childhood of divorce and estrangement, the death of close friends and in the wake of several traumatic personal events (flashbacks of abuse, the aneurysm, her husband's heart attack and the disintegration of her family as she knew it), Holly's own grief eventually became debilitating. It had also emerged as the single biggest factor in most of her end-of-life work, leading her to become a Grief Specialist. In addition to offering Grief Services at Healing Heart to Heart, she co-founded the initiative Taming Our Grief Ghosts. In these small-group grief workshops, the co-facilitators continue tapped into a variety of modalities and related topics to empower participants to recognize and move through loss and grief in their own lives.

After being an active provider in the end-of-life and grief space for many years, Holly Strelzik founded Center for the Heart, a non-profit committed to providing compassionate care for all facing end-of-life and grief, regardless of financial means or circumstance.

Holly then become a certified Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist™, enabling her to offer evidenced-based support in grief recovery via a researched and proven modality that guides clients on a profound journey of self-exploration and completion. Through this training, she is qualified to work one-on-one and in groups, online and in-person, with adults and caregivers to children experiencing loss. Holly personally has alchemized her own losses via the Grief Recovery Method® and continues to apply it, working through other relationships in her life.

Her recent personal experiences and the general changes in the world underlined even more how ill-equipped most people are to deal with loss and the resulting grief. In this spirit, she founded Center for the Heart (C4TH), a nonprofit organization committed to providing compassionate end-of-life and grief services to all who are in need. Currently, C4TH serves the Union County area and hopes to expand its services to the whole of New Jersey soon and eventually the New York City area.

In all aspects of her life, Holly seeks to further her goal that empowerment and inner peace be accessible to all. A motivated leader, she uses stories to inspire action. Her vast and in-depth volunteer experience in multiple domains coupled with her training and structural, planning and management skills allow her to actualize beneficial ideas on an individual and group level. She serves with passion and joy, building strong, lasting relationships that continue to benefit diverse community development and nonprofit organizations for years beyond her involvement.

As she walks together with her husband in his illness, the passions that drive her are elevating end-of-life and grief experiences worldwide for all populations and supporting care for individuals, families and communities facing Alzheimer's and other terminal diagnoses. She cherishes every moment with her husband, two children, grandchild, her extended family, and two beloved therapy dogs, Athena and Sarge. Holly tries daily to tap into the wonder all around - in nature and other beings. She's ecstatic whenever animals, golf, gardening, yoga, meditation, horseback riding, traveling to sacred places, walking and boundless learning are involved.

Kind Words

Mary

Your outlook on life is amazing, your outlook on grief is inspiring. Your compassion and understanding, I appreciate more than I can put into words. Your comfort and support over the years during my most difficult times…Our conversation about grief and you speaking with me over the context of the books, that other wise I may have overlooked ,Thank you. Thank you for getting them  to me so quick. I believe they were here before I realized you sent them. You are a gift to those in need.

Cheryl

“Holly’s gentle and kind touch is an extension of her heart. She has a unique ability to adapt her healing hands so that she can apply the right healing feeling to any situation... making patients and family feel comforted.“

Credentials & Experience

  • Certified Advanced Grief Recovery Method Specialist™

  • Certificate in Integrative Thanatology (The Art of Dying Institute - New York Open Center)

  • INELDA (Member)

  • EOL Doula Continuing Education (INELDA)

  • Grief Yoga Training (Paul Denniston)

  • Continuing Grief Education (David Kessler)

  • BA Marketing (Brescia University)

  • Ordained Minister (Universal Life Church)

  • Seniors Blue Book (Member)

  • Reiki Master (Holy Fire)

  • International Association of Reiki Professionals (Member)

  • International Center for Reiki Training (Member)

  • Center for the Heart (Founder & President)

  • The JFS Charlotte Shak Food Pantry (Volunteer & Donor)

  • Atlantic Visiting Nurse Hospice (Reiki Practitioner)

  • Atlantic Health System (Grief & Bereavement Committee)

  • Your Decisions Matter, Sage Eldercare + Overlook Hospital (EOL Doula Representative)

  • Imagine (Grief Group Facilitator)

  • Temple Sinai (Former VP of Development & Board Member, Former Chair - Hospitality for the Homeless)

  • BWNICE (Member)

  • United Jewish Federation of Greater MetroWest (Donor, Advocate)

    C.A.R.E.S. (Committee Member)

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Holly's Why

Hear from Our Founder & President, Holly Strelzik, as she talks about why she founded Center for the Heart, and how she hopes C4TH can continue to raise the bar on end-of-life and grief literacy, support and care.